Well a couple of weeks ago I was frustrated with work amongst other things.
I had my court date on Monday only to get all the way into LA to be told that the window of opportunity for child support had just closed on a case I purposely closed more than 2 years ago. The lady just looked at me and couldn't figure out why I didn't want to Jane anything to do with re-opening a new case.
Sometimes things are better left the way they have been instead of opening up a new can if worms. It's true the kids haven't seen their dad for almost 3 years. Do I care? Not really. He has never in the past 5 years supported these kids, hasn't called on their birthdays, Christmas etc for that same amount of time. He always seems to call once a year to let me know his new phone number, other than that I never hear from him.
So do I wish to find him for CS? No.
He's made his bed so to speak, and it's basically up to him to make contact with his kids, should he ever want to hold up his end if the bargain.
In the meantime I believe that The Lord gave both Marc and I our steady jobs at Disney that He will provide for all of us through.
Believe me the child support is so not worth it and the kids are better off with a father who they never see then a father like Manni's. Manni's dad has never lived with in two hundred miles of us yet he spent thousands of dollars to make it so I have to take hito court to move. He gives me a near two hundred dollars a month, yet the amount of money he spent on a lawyer to get the child support that low is rediculus. He made such a big deal about Manni calling Jason Dad that now he doesn't call anyone dad not even his father. He finally gets his stuff I order only to screw his relationship up with his son for a woman who clearly has issues with Manni. I would so not open up a can of worms to put the kids through for money, believe me it is SO not worth it. I wish I could go back and change things, but what's done is done. You are right that you are very blessed and that you have a man willing to take on those important responsibilities for your kids!!! Lots of Love and I hear Congrats is I order:)
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